When You Will Grow Up

Not a long time ago I was thinking about my future kids professions. It all happenned when I attended a Slovak folklore birthday party for a famous 80-year old choreographer.

He is known for bringing Slovak traditional dances to life and as a "thank you" almost all dancers made an appearance with their presentation. I thought the little dancers were totally adorable and beyond cute, and I decided to "sacrifice" my daughter for the sake of traditional Slovak dance. I said sacrifice because I know few people who used to dance as kids and basically they consider it a high form of children slavery. Because parents did not respect their wish NOT to dance and forced them to be involved in an activity they hated. I really don´t want to be this type of parent, but as long as my little girl will be all cute and dancing like a ballerina, I am into the dance class.

It was somewhere in 2007 and I wanted to have three children, two boys and a girl. My daughter would be a dancer, but what about the boys? Again, the cuteness factor. I really like hockey players and cute little boys skating on ice, dreaming big and playing hard. I wanted my son to be a professional ice-hockey player. The last baby, my dream baby named Gabriel, would be a journalist. I am the only one in my family who can write, so why not pass it to my son? Also, there was a famous journalist from the 60´ies called Gavril Gryzlov, Gavril means Gabriel in Russian. It would be nice to pay him a tribute this way - name my son after him and send him to Columbia University to study journalism.

By now, I just started having my kids. Jr. is adorable and cute and he can choose what he wants to be. He loves to comb hair, clean windows, drive a car, cook and massage. If he wants to be a masseusse, as long as he is happy, I will support him. Bye-bye free ice-hockey matches, welcome free massages!

Baby and the Bunny

On Friday I invited myself over to my friend Lenka. She wrote me a message on Wednesday that we can meet anytime downtown, so I called her the next day and asked her what is she up to and when she said she will be home, I said - yeah, we can come visit you! And because it was lunchtime she suggested she will make a lunch for me and the baby and I gladly accepted.

So she prepared sushi for us, it was kinda good. Jr. was eating rice and then some carrot and then a little of soup, but he was really amazed by Lenka´s and David´s rabbit. Rabit was not amazed at all :D He was scared, running like in a komics, when you see paws on an animal moving in frenzy- that was their bunny. Lenka said that he was

fine when they had a huge party with loud music and 20 people talking and drinking, but he got really scared when he saw a baby. Jr. didn´t even try to catch him or touch him, he was just being happy and looking at the bunny.

Me and Lenka decided to take a trip to Vienna after our exams. She and David were there few weeks ago and he don´t feel like coming back so I can go!. Sooo I am happy´ cause I want to explore the Jewish Vienna and finally see the Sigmund Freud Museum. Awesome :D

(Pic Nr. 1. - Jr. and David playing with his blanket, pic Nr. 2. - Lenka presenting her sushi)

Peace

I am lazy to write. Enjoy some pics, I will think about some words:)

Frankie Said Relax, So I Did

Yesterday I needed to relax, calm down. I am preparing for my graduation exams and I am studying every time I have some time. When Jr. is asleep, I try to learn. Sometimes my mom or dad took him out for walk, so I have some more time I can spend with theories of journalism. 

My big day is in 10 days and I know about half of things I should know. I decided I deserve a little treat, so I did a scrapbook page about Jr.´s first swimming lesson. Here it is:

Materials used: Yellow, pale yellow and orange paper by Basic Color Paper from Sevt, stripped paper and flower paper by Walmart, embellishments by Lidl, whale button by Tesco, blue dots by vintage :).

Three Days In A Life Of A Baby

Three days passed and I barely got time to breathe, not to write. Previous two days I was so tired I fell asleep with the baby, waking up in the morning to feed him. But funny things happened every day, so here I go...

Tuesday: We went for a short walk to a private primary school playground, that is nearby our house. I guess this is the only place here where the grass is not covered in smoke butts, dog excrements and dirty papers. They have a nice playground and sometimes open their gates for public, so we went to try it. Jr. showed a desire to work, not play. He saw a lot full of little stones and a wooden playhouse nearby. My cousin has this exact house and it stands on a lot full of little stones. Jr. connected this two images in his little head and decided to bring the stones to the house, to make it like it should be. For more than half an hour he was carrying stones from the lot to the house five feet apart.

Wednesday: My mom was working all day and she didn´t spend almost any time with Jr. I decided to take him for a walk to the place where sho works and wait for her outside. Jr. was amazed by tennis players who were playing at a nearby court and didn´t want to play with his own HSM ball. There was a little boy about four playing tennis too and I started dreaming about Jr. playing tennis and being famous and honoring me with gifts and mentioning me in every article, how much he loves me...

Wake up, Ninka! :D Before I was pregnant I wanted to have an ice hockey player son and traditional dancer daughter. But now I realized the most important is what the baby wants and not what the parent wants. If Jr. will choose to be a hair dresser, cook, journalist, fisherman, driver, IT specialist or something else, I will support his decision.

And today he found out a new game. He loves to play with the cookware and he realized he can hide under a pot! How funny! :) We also spend most of the day by ourselves and he was a really nice company. The only thing I wish is he would let me sleep longer...

PS: Good news for scrapbooking. I have found a store from Czech Republic that shipps stuff to Slovakia. I immediatelly ordered papers and embellishments and now I need to find how to pay it into a foreign country... 

All By Myself

I was in a gym all by myself today. I know it may be not a big deal for somebody, but for me certainly is. Hanging out in public places alone was never fine with me. I refuse to eat, drink or wait in public by myself, and honestly, I don´t know why.
Imagine an intellectual heroine, probably a French girl in a black turtleneck, black glasses and heavy book in hand. She is sitting alone in a caffee and she is occupied by the book, she don´t care about the world, but the world is amazed by her grace, intelect and beauty. This French girl has a pen and paper in front of her and sometimes she scribbles her brilliant ideas. People admire her courage and smart mind.
And I admire her too. I have this image stuck in my head every time a situation like this is about to happen. But I could never pretend I am this imaginary girl. I simply don´t have nerve to go and order a lunch just for me, or drink, or peace of cake. I need to say it is not an obsession or phobia. Once I desperately wanted to eat chinese so I went and ate in an empty Chinese restaurant. Once I had to wait for my books in the library to come for two hours, so I spent them in the nearest Coffee & Co. branch with a carrot cake and sweet coffee. And today I was sweating in a gym. None of this experiences were scary or mortifying. It just don´t feel right with me.
The image of the smart French girl is still on my mind. But I think I will have to visit A LOT of public places by myself to come closer to her...

Cutting The Paper

I mentioned yesterday that I bought a new album for scrapbooks. I love the flowers and the simple and clean white pages in it. But not to be boring and plain, I bought some gift wrapping paper (I said that in Slovakia they don´t sell much scrapbooking supplies, I have to use what I can...) with black-and-white design. I measured it and cut it into 26 smaller pieces to cover the clean pages. Now I will use the black-and-white background as my base for the scrapbooks. Other colors I am going to use are red, yellow and silver and I guess the B/W will nicely complement it and put together.  I already have some embelishments ready, so let the party begin!